Ever seeking the way to plot out the timeline, never bite off more than you can chew was considered first. Instead of "how dare you to challenge my oral possibilities" why not "thanks for eliminating my TMJ". The next level on the plot shows it's so much more than just 2 ends and the multi-middle forms a curve and we know that curves embrace you.

The sources make you go back even if only to grab the thoughts. This is an example: Watching a cabin building contest I pictured past projects and remember the flaws more than the excitement at the finish. It started with competing with the dad I lionized for mom's affection. His flawed finishing on his projects made me feel praised even though my finishes were differently flawed. That explains why it's OK to effup which adds to the pile but embracing that curve strengthens the accum enough to not go full court press.

Staying distant from winners vs losers thinking, pretending the feeling is pre-tingle, the laird goes 3rd person to ride the sensations unabashedly.